In their own words
Not transformations.
Evolutions.
Names and details are kept loose, on purpose. These are real people whose privacy matters more than any marketing. What's true is the shape of the change.
FEATURED CASE STUDY
Sarah - Chief Operating Officer, 51.
From redundancy fear to designed authority
"I was pretty scared. I knew I was great at my job but it was changing rapidly and I wasn't clear there would be much left of it with so much automated. How would I justify my seniority at that point? I didn't know how to move forward and it was starting to impact my work."
The situation
Sarah had spent thirty years becoming exceptionally good in a domain that was changing faster than she could track. As COO of a mid-sized professional services firm, her value had always rested on her ability to hold complexity - to see across functions, manage competing priorities and make good decisions under pressure. She was respected, well-paid and successful.
She came to this work carrying a question that more senior leaders are asking than most would admit: what happens to someone like me when the systems I've built my career on get automated?
It was not an unreasonable question. Several of the processes her function owned had already been restructured around AI tooling. Her board was enthusiastic. Her team was adapting. She was doing all the right things professionally - and privately wondering whether she was managing her own redundancy.
The diagnostic phase
The first task was to separate what was real from what was anxiety. Using the Beholding method, we mapped what Sarah actually did - not her job description, but the real texture of her contribution. What did people come to her for that they couldn't get elsewhere? Where did her presence change outcomes? What did she do that the tooling, however capable, was not doing?
The picture that emerged was more nuanced than her fear had allowed. A significant portion of her role had indeed shifted - and would continue to. But underneath the processes and the oversight functions was a layer of capability that had nothing to do with efficiency: the ability to read a room accurately, to hold trust across factions, to make calls in conditions of genuine ambiguity, to bring people through change without losing them. None of that was going anywhere. It was, if anything, becoming more valuable as the organisations around her accelerated.
"Beholding is intense and unusually revealing. With Matt's help I began to see that I'd spent thirty years developing really valuable relational skills without ever thinking about it - they'd been buried in my ops role. Starting to name those and deepen them in an embodied sense was really valuable in figuring out my next move."
The problem was not that Sarah was becoming redundant. The problem was that she had not yet built an identity around what actually made her irreplaceable.
The fear that brought her to the work was not unfounded. Her role was changing. What the work provided was the clarity and the methodology to design a response - rather than wait for circumstances to decide for her.
The work
Over nine months of weekly sessions, we worked across two tracks simultaneously. The first was practical: reframing her role, her communication of her own value, and her relationship to the technology her organisation was deploying. She moved from a posture of managed anxiety to one of genuine authority - someone who understood what AI could and couldn't do, and could lead her organisation's thinking on the human side of that question.
The second track was deeper. Using the Beholding method, we examined the identity she had built around execution and operational control - and what it would mean to lead from a different foundation. This is where the most significant shift occurred. Sarah had conflated her value with her function. Separating the two was uncomfortable and, ultimately, clarifying.
The design phase
With that clarity established, we turned to the design question: what did she want the next decade to look like, and what model would get her there? She had no interest in leaving the corporate world - but she wanted to lead differently. More selectively. With greater authority over the kind of work she took on and the organisations she chose to work within.
We developed a positioning built around her genuine capability: senior advisory and interim COO work for organisations navigating operational transformation in an AI-intensive environment. A role that required exactly the human capability she had spent twenty years developing - and that the technology she had feared would displace her had, in effect, made more necessary.
Outcomes
Twelve months on, Sarah has transitioned out of her employed role into a portfolio of advisory engagements. Her first two clients are former peers who sought her out specifically for her ability to lead teams through technology-driven change. She is earning at a comparable level, working with greater autonomy, and operating in a domain where her experience is directly relevant rather than quietly under threat.
The fear that brought her to the work was not unfounded. Her role was changing. What the work provided was the clarity and the methodology to design a response - rather than wait for circumstances to decide for her.
"I've shifted to a new domain that makes the most of both my operational knowledge and the relational dynamics I've spent my whole career learning. I work with a small number of organisations with more authority on more varied and interesting problems. This is not an outcome I had dreamed of. It was far from a painless transition but we'd spent time designing every step so it was manageable."
- Sarah, CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER, 51
FEATURED CASE STUDY
John - Professor, 54.
Reimagining academia
"A significant part of what I thought of as my identity was actually the institution's identity, lent to me in exchange for my labour. Separating those two things was unexpectedly demanding. And unexpectedly important."
The situation
After three decades in higher education, John had reached a ceiling that had nothing to do with his capability. His expertise was substantial, his reputation strong, his network wide - and, it became clear early in our work together, significantly undervalued by the institution that housed it. He had spent thirty years developing a body of knowledge, a set of relationships and a quality of thinking that very few people in his field could match. The institution he worked within was another matter - contracting, bureaucratic, and increasingly misaligned with the kind of contribution he wanted to make.
He came to the work with a clear underlying question: was there a viable model for the next chapter, and if so, what would it take to build it?
"I came to Matt at a point where I had genuine capability and no viable container for it. The institutional model I'd operated within for thirty years was contracting, and I was aware that waiting for it to recover was not a strategy."
The brief
Rather than beginning with career options, we started with a deep exploration of the core outcomes of John's current situation - material and emotional - then moving into the psychological and emotional outcomes he wanted his new life to support. We then mapped the concrete life design parameters that would govern everything that followed. John wanted to spend six months of each year living abroad. He wanted an income independent of institutional employment. He wanted work that drew seriously on his accumulated expertise and continued to challenge him intellectually. He wanted collaborators he respected and a sense of purpose that extended beyond himself.
These weren't aspirations. They became the design principles within which any viable model would need to operate.
"What I didn't expect was how much of the early work would be about getting precise about the reality I was living in and what I actually wanted - starting abstract but going deep into the practical sense, daily terms. Where did I want to be? What did I want to be doing at ten in the morning on a Tuesday? What did money need to do? Those questions sound simple. They're not, when you've spent decades operating within a structure that answers most of them for you."
But underneath the practical brief was a more subtle and significant question. John had spent thirty years inside an institution that had, in many ways, provided his identity as much as his income. The professor, the expert, the man the department relied on. Leaving wasn't just a career decision. It required him to author a new version of himself - one that wasn't conferred by an institution, but chosen and built deliberately. It also required him to recognise, clearly and without false modesty, the genuine scale of what he had built. That recognition - that his expertise, his network and his way of thinking were not institutional assets but his own - was foundational to everything that followed.
The diagnostic phase
We mapped what John actually had against what the model would require. The picture was striking. Thirty years of deep subject knowledge, developed at the leading edge of his field. A reputation that preceded him in rooms he hadn't yet entered. Relationships with practitioners, institutions and thinkers across multiple sectors and several continents. A proven ability to make complex ideas accessible - and to hold the attention of people who had heard every version of those ideas before. And an intellectual restlessness that, far from being a liability, was precisely what the market he was moving into would value most.
"What I also hadn't anticipated was being asked to take seriously what I'd actually built. I don't think I had - not properly. Thirty years of work has a way of becoming invisible to the person who did it. Having someone map it back to me clearly, and then show me precisely where it fit in a market that genuinely needed it, was both clarifying and somewhat overdue."
We examined the broader landscape - not just higher education, but the emerging market of experienced older learners who are systematically underserved by traditional institutions, and who have both the means and the motivation to invest seriously in their own development. This was a market that needed exactly what John had. Not a course. Not a credential. A mind - and a method.
Using the Beholding method, we also mapped the identity question directly. Who was John outside the institutional frame? What did he value when no one was measuring it? What kind of leader, collaborator and thinker did he want to be - not as a role, but as a person? We explored the perceived difference between who he was and who he needed to become - alongside how he might grow into that and what the blockers might be. This work ran in parallel with the commercial diagnostic and proved equally foundational. A model built on a borrowed identity would not hold. The architecture needed to be his.
"What I also hadn't anticipated was the identity work. I had assumed I knew who I was - I'd been doing the same thing for thirty years. What became clear, fairly quickly, was that a significant part of what I thought of as my identity was actually the institution's identity, lent to me in exchange for my labour. Separating those two things - understanding what was actually mine - was unexpectedly demanding work. And unexpectedly important. Without it, I think I would have built a model that replicated the old constraints in a new setting."
The gap in the market was clear. So was John's fit for it - once he could see himself clearly enough to claim it.
Building the model
Over several months of weekly sessions, we developed a commercial and educational model designed around that market. A model that placed John's expertise - its depth, its accessibility, its thirty-year accumulation - at the centre, rather than treating it as one input among many. We prototyped, stress-tested assumptions and refined the offer until it was coherent, differentiated and grounded in genuine demand. The Beholding method provided the relational structure throughout - ensuring that decisions were made from a clear and honest assessment of what John wanted and what he was actually capable of, rather than from anxiety or institutional habit.
"Design thinking gave us a framework to get things done - step by step. We weren't generating ideas - we were building a model of me and the work, testing it, refining it. That rigour was important to me. I'm not someone who generally responds well to vision boarding."
As the model took shape, so did John's sense of himself within it. The identity work and the design work were not sequential - they informed each other continuously. The clearer he became about who he was becoming, the bolder and more precise the model got. And the more precisely the model was articulated, the more apparent it became that John was not starting from scratch. He was starting from an extraordinary position - one that most people his age, in his field, had not come close to building.
The group work
Once the model had sufficient shape, I spent two days working directly with John and a group of collaborators he had identified - individuals with distinct and complementary capabilities who could contribute meaningfully to what he was building. The choice of collaborators was itself a reflection of John's standing: these were people who said yes because of who he was and what he had built, not because of the institution behind him.
The two days were structured around a rigorous collective inquiry: what did each person bring, where were the gaps, what did the market require, and what would the model need to look like to be genuinely viable? John's role in those two days was revealing - the quality of his thinking, his ability to hold the group's attention and his instinct for what was real versus what was wishful were evident throughout. These were not qualities the institution had given him. They were his.
By the end of the two days, the architecture was substantially clearer. Roles had been defined. The offer had sharpened. The group had a shared understanding of what they were building, why it was distinctive and what the next ninety days needed to contain.
"The two days working with my collaborator group was a gamechanger, bringing them into the process at exactly the right time."
Outcomes
John now has a defined commercial model, a collaborator group with identified roles, a target market with validated demand and a working plan for the next two years. The life parameters he set at the outset - geography, income independence, intellectual challenge, meaningful contribution - are built into the model rather than deferred until it scales.
Equally significant: John has a clear and grounded sense of who he is in this next chapter. Not the institutional expert waiting to be validated by a department or a funding body - but someone who has done the work of understanding his own value, chosen his own direction, and built something that reflects both. Thirty years of expertise, relationships and intellectual development - properly valued, properly positioned and finally working entirely for him.
The work took eleven months. It combined individual coaching, identity authorship work, design methodology and facilitated group work. The result is not a career pivot. It is a designed next chapter - built to his specification, grounded in his capability and viable on his terms.
"I know what I'm building and who I need to be to make it happen. That's not a small thing.
Crucially, working with Matt gave me the confidence to really commit to this process. I wasn't sure about Beholding to begin with and I'd never used Design Thinking before but his warm, open manner and gentle, authoritative clarity enabled me to trust the process and move one step at a time into my future. He's been there in professional and personal senses and has the skills to support others on their journey. He's also a really kind and empathic person - I always felt that Matt was 100% in my corner and would hold the whole process and get us where we needed to be."
- John, PROFESSOR, 54
Shorter evolutions
01
M.
DIRECTOR · 5 MONTHS IN
"I stopped dreading Sunday night."
I came in thinking the problem was in me - I thought I lacked discipline, motivation but after three months or so I realised that it was more that the life I'd built required superhuman discipline just to tolerate. We've changed lots of small things, one a time that have added up to big change. The Sunday dread has pretty much disappeared.
02
A.
PARENT OF TWO · 6 MONTHS IN
"I stopped yelling at my kids (as much) and started sleeping much better."
I'd been stuck in the same loop for years, having tried apps, books and talking therapy. Nothing seemed to change. With this work I stopped trying to fix me. Matt helped me see more clearly what was actually happening and run small experiments to see what worked. Four months in, I noticed I'd stopped feeling so irritable.
03
J.
FOUNDER · 8 MONTHS IN
"I came in expecting accountability. I got something better."
I thought I needed someone to hold me to account. I'd been dodging tough decisions and action for a long time but what I actually needed was something completely different. Matt was the first person who didn't flinch when I told him about how badly I was managing at work and life. I guess that was ground zero and since then we've steadily turned everything around. There's still more to do but it's impacting every aspect of my life in a positive way.
04
R.
41 · ONGOING
"I started embracing my own life."
I didn't know this was possible. My life had been full-on effort and stress, all the time. Six months in to the coaching I noticed I woke up feeling better. A bit more in flow and I just wasn't bracing myself anymore. That's the thing that stays with me - less what I've achieved, but more what's gone. Like a weight lifted. What relief!